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                                                                                                                                                  "What has happened in Damon's case is a clear example of the 
                                                                                                                                                  well-documented phenomenon of family courts discounting clear evidence 
                                                                                                                                                  of sexual abuse, improperly ascribing malevolent motives 
                                                                                                                                                  to mothers attempting to protect their abused children, and then 
                                                                                                                                                  placing the children in the custody of the fathers who victimized them."   
                                                                                                                                                  Richard Ducote, Nationally Renowned Attorney

                                                                                                                                                  Ducote Law 

                                                                                                                                                  The "malevolent motives" referred to are versions of pedophile supporter 
                                                                                                                                                  Richard Gardner's Parental Alienation theory, 
                                                                                                                                                  which Damon's mom was unjustly accused of without any supporting evidence.

                                                                                                                                                  This theory contends that mothers coach children to report sexual abuse out of vindictiveness. (Court terminology is mothers "exert undue influence" on children to report abuse.)

                                                                                                                                                  It is a disguised way of calling women and children who report abuse liars.
                                                                                                                                                  The statistics show it is rare for women and children to report abuse falsely, 
                                                                                                                                                  yet family courts ignore the research and the evidence in order to silence them.

                                                                                                                                                  Parental Alienation is a completely bogus defense used by child molesters 

                                                                                                                                                  in order to shift the blame to the mother and child. 
                                                                                                                                                  The American Prosecutors Research Institute (a division of the National District Attorneys Association), identified the use of Parental Alienation as a deliberate means 
                                                                                                                                                  to obstruct prosecution of child abuse cases.  

                                                                                                                                                  This theory has been completely discredited by the scientific community and does not comply with the Daubert standard of admissibilty, but family courts still use it to be able to cover up the abuse and justify taking children away from their protective parents 

                                                                                                                                                  and forcing them to live with their abusers.
                                                                                                                                                  This bogus theory was used against Damon's mom, despite Judge Alksne's 
                                                                                                                                                  and the Appellate Court's inability to provide any evidence whatsoever 
                                                                                                                                                  to support that Damon's reports of abuse were a result of her coaching him.  
                                                                                                                                                  [See Petition for Rehearing].
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                                                                                                                                                  UPDATE:
                                                                                                                                                  DING DONG, the witch is dead...The wicked witch is dead!!
                                                                                                                                                  Well, almost.  At least Judge Alksne was transferred out of Family Court 

                                                                                                                                                  to destroy some other poor people's lives.
                                                                                                                                                  That may signify hope that the new judge will actually listen to Damon 
                                                                                                                                                  and allow him to live where he feels safe and loved.  
                                                                                                                                                  Or not.
                                                                                                                                                  Wanna bet??  Send your bets to:  SavingDamon@yahoo.com 


                                                                                                                                                  DAMON HAS NOW BEEN GONE FOR OVER SIX MONTHS.
                                                                                                                                                  Poor kid; missing out on his life because family courts protect predators, not children.

                                                                                                                                                  Damon applied for emancipation in Alameda County,  but Judge Charles Smiley required Damon to be there in person (instead of over the phone).  
                                                                                                                                                  Of course Judge Smiley knew Damon could not be there in person 
                                                                                                                                                  or they would have arrested him and forced him back to his abuser's.
                                                                                                                                                  So Judge Smiley ruined Damon's chance to come back and be safe. 
                                                                                                                                                  Another pro-father, anti-kid judge.  What else is new?

                                                                                                                                                  So Damon's attorney sent a stipulation to Damon's father asking Eric to agree to Damon being free to live and visit where he wants, 

                                                                                                                                                  so that he could come back to school.
                                                                                                                                                  In true abuser fashion, Eric refused.
                                                                                                                                                  Control, control, control.

                                                                                                                                                  You can call him at:  (858) 603-4664 to tell him what you think. 
                                                                                                                                                  Or write or visit him at:  Eric Moelter, 14489 Crestwood Dr., Poway, CA 92064
                                                                                                                                                  Or email him at ericmoelter@yahoo.com
                                                                                                                                                  And be sure and talk to Nicole Peill Moelter while you're at it.  
                                                                                                                                                  She is colluding in keeping Damon away from his life and stealing his childhood.
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                                                                                                                                                  Instead of finally listening to Damon and allowing him to live 
                                                                                                                                                  where he feels safe and loved, Judge Lorna Alksne and D.A. Bonnie Dumanis 
                                                                                                                                                  issued a Warrant to Arrest Damon and force him back to his abuser. 

                                                                                                                                                  DOES IT MAKE ANY SENSE TO ARREST A KID, 
                                                                                                                                                  FORCE HIM BACK TO HIS IDENTIFIED MOLESTER,  
                                                                                                                                                  AND ORDER NO CONTACT WITH THE PARENT HE WANTS TO LIVE WITH?
                                                                                                                                                  OF COURSE NOT
                                                                                                                                                  You have now entered the Family Court Cover Up Zone 
                                                                                                                                                  where child molesters are protected, not children.

                                                                                                                                                  WHY?
                                                                                                                                                  BECAUSE ABUSERS HAVE THE POWER THROUGH CONNECTIONS & MONEY.

                                                                                                                                                  ALSO, FATHERS HAVE ALWAYS HAD THE RIGHT UNDER PATRIARCHY 
                                                                                                                                                  TO DO WHATEVER THEY WANT TO THEIR CHILDREN---THEIR PROPERTY.
                                                                                                                                                  They can "grow their own victims," as Andrew Vacchs, J.D. said.  
                                                                                                                                                  He also said:  
                                                                                                                                                  "We cannot stop every case [of incest], but we can, as a society, 
                                                                                                                                                  stop providing safe harbor to perpetrators."
                                                                                                                                                  Family Court provides safe harbor to incest perpetrators,  
                                                                                                                                                  and it is up to us as a society to stop it.  

                                                                                                                                                  Damon's mom was told by Judge Michael T. Smyth that she must 
                                                                                                                                                  "act like the abuse did not happen, even if it did" 
                                                                                                                                                  to preserve the reputation of the Father. 

                                                                                                                                                  He also threatened she would lose custody if she did not:
                                                                                                                                                  "...the only way this family is going to move forward and you’re going to keep these kids is if from here on out, you’re acting like it didn’t happen.  And that’s probably – that’s going to be very difficult for you to do that.  I think that the only way you’re going to be able to do that is if you know you’re going to lose these kids if you don’t."   
                                                                                                                                                  A brazen threat designed to silence Damon's mom.
                                                                                                                                                  In Family Court a Father's Reputation is worth more than a Child's Life.
                                                                                                                                                  What is this--the Dark Ages?  Vestigial Patriarchy?

                                                                                                                                                  Judge Lorna Alksne McKellar 
                                                                                                                                                  and Damon's court appointed attorney, Gary Plavnick confirmed that 
                                                                                                                                                  Family Court policy is to "reunify" the child with their molester
                                                                                                                                                  so there is no need to do a proper investigation or adjudication.
                                                                                                                                                  In what other context are children forced to live with their rapists?

                                                                                                                                                  Women and children are routinely called liars in sexual abuse cases 
                                                                                                                                                  however, they are not really disbelieved, that is a deliberate tactic to silence them.

                                                                                                                                                  The court officials know the abuse is occurring; their job is to permit it to continue,
                                                                                                                                                  as per the age-old patriarchal dictum.
                                                                                                                                                  THE COVER UP 

                                                                                                                                                  Judge Alksne McKellar, Judge Michael  T. Smyth, D.A. Bonnie Dumanis, 
                                                                                                                                                  lawyers, psychologists, CPS workers, and law enforcement have deliberately 

                                                                                                                                                  colluded in the cover up of sexual abuse by Damon's father because he, 
                                                                                                                                                  like Jerry Sandusky, is an "otherwise upstanding" middle class man.

                                                                                                                                                  Besides, it is so much easier and more profitable to blame a mother.

                                                                                                                                                  For a complete list of Damon's traffickers see:  Sex Offender Enabler Registry
                                                                                                                                                  Family Court officials across the nation are doing the same thing.
                                                                                                                                                  It's time to hold them accountable:
                                                                                                                                                  Damon's List

                                                                                                                                                  More than 200 children a day are placed with molesters, rapists and abusers, 
                                                                                                                                                  while protective parents are actively prevented from protecting their children
                                                                                                                                                  with threats from the bench, the bar, child protective and mental health professionals.

                                                                                                                                                  Threats to Silence 

                                                                                                                                                  THERE IS A CRISIS IN OUR FAMILY COURT SYSTEM 
                                                                                                                                                  AND IT'S TIME FOR MAJOR REFORM  
                                                                                                                                                  OR BETTER YET JUST ABOLISH IT
                                                                                                                                                  WE NEED JURY TRIALS SO BIASED AND CORRUPT JUDGES LIKE JUDGE LORNA ALKSNE and JUDGE MICHAEL T. SMYTH CANNOT PLACE KIDS WITH ABUSERS ANYMORE 
                                                                                                                                                  Center for Judicial Excellence
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                                                                                                                                                  SHAME ON YOU D.A. BONNIE DUMANIS
                                                                                                                                                  "The Bonnie Dumanis Ditty"

                                                                                                                                                  D.A. Dumanis is colluding in forcing Damon back to his abuser by issuing a warrant to arrest him and force him back to his abuser.  
                                                                                                                                                  That is despite the fact that in 2007 Bonnie deemed there was enough evidence of sexual abuse to dismiss all charges of abduction against his mom for their three years in hiding.  
                                                                                                                                                  She promised Damon would be protected if they came back to San Diego
                                                                                                                                                  --but it was a trick.
                                                                                                                                                  Could this be another favor for her friend Judge Lorna Alksne 
                                                                                                                                                  who placed Damon with his abuser?
                                                                                                                                                  Or just business as usual--not caring about protecting our children
                                                                                                                                                  ---just her conviction rate?

                                                                                                                                                  Bonnie is also responsible for sending many more children to their molesters.
                                                                                                                                                  Please take a few moments of your precious time to help Damon.
                                                                                                                                                  CONTACT D.A. BONNIE DUMANIS
                                                                                                                                                  AND ASK HER TO ENSURE DAMON'S SAFE RETURN!!   
                                                                                                                                                  Call or email Bonnie and tell her that you will support her for mayor 
                                                                                                                                                  only if she begins protecting our children and our community, 

                                                                                                                                                  starting with Damon.
                                                                                                                                                  If you are not from San Diego, tell her you support Damon 

                                                                                                                                                  being protected from his identified abuser.
                                                                                                                                                  Link to sample letter you can copy and email to the D.A.  
                                                                                                                                                  Link to contact Dumanis' office

                                                                                                                                                  email: publicaffairs@sdcda.org
                                                                                                                                                  (619) 531-4040

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                                                                                                                                                                        Damon's Story
                                                                                                                                                                                 [Link to Damon's accounts of abuse] 
                                                                                                                                                  After two years of trying unsuccessfully to protect Damon in San Diego Family Court under Judge Michael Smyth, Damon's mom took his brothers and him into hiding.  

                                                                                                                                                  After three years in hiding, D.A. Dumanis conducted a review of old documents and found there was enough evidence of sexual abuse 
                                                                                                                                                  to dismiss all abduction charges against Damon's mom.
                                                                                                                                                  Deputy D.A. Teresa Santana said she believed Damon, but did not think there was not enough evidence for "beyond a reasonable doubt" (without having conducted interviews with Damon or any other witnesses), so they could not prosecute Damon's identified molester.  

                                                                                                                                                  D.A. Dumanis had promised if they came back to San Diego and agreed to be heard by her freithere would finally be a proper investigation and fair hearing, and Damon would be listened to and protected from his father, Eric Moelter, whom he says sexually and physically abused him for many years and threatened to kill him if he told anyone.
                                                                                                                                                                        BUT IT WAS JUST A TRICK TO GET THEM BACK TO SAN DIEGO 
                                                                                                                                                                                        AND GIVE THE KIDS TO THE MOLESTER.

                                                                                                                                                  Dumanis gave the case specifically to her friend, Judge Lorna Alksne McKellar
                                                                                                                                                  who deliberately violated the laws which were specifically enacted to protect children like Damon. 

                                                                                                                                                  Judge Alksne did not do the minimum required to investigate the abuse as per FC 3118; 
                                                                                                                                                  she denied his due process right to an evidentiary hearing and wouldn't allow him to testify; 
                                                                                                                                                  she denied critical evidence, including the video of Damon describing years of abuse to the Chadwick Center, and the transcript of his in-chambers testimony when he told her about the abuse, in violation of Family Code 7892;  and she violated Family Code 3027.5 which prohibits removing custody from parents who report abuse. 

                                                                                                                                                                                 INSTEAD OF JUSTICE AND PROTECTION 
                                                                                                                                                  Judge Alksne used the bogus and inadmissible "Parental Alienation" (PA) theory to take Damon and his brothers away from their protective mom 
                                                                                                                                                  and place them with his abuser.
                                                                                                                                                  [PA theory was created by pedophile Richard Gardner as a disguised way of calling women and children who report sexual abuse liars, silencing them and enabling the switching of custody to the molesters.]
                                                                                                                                                  There was not one bit of evidence to support PA, while there was plenty of evidence to support the abuse, but that did not stop Judge Alksne from using it to effectively terminate Cindy's parental rights.

                                                                                                                                                  Judge Alksne appointed Dr. Breffni Barrett to "deprogram" the boys  
                                                                                                                                                   "Deprogramming" is pedophile Gardner's recommended cure for Parental Alienation, 
                                                                                                                                                  as he claims mothers program their children to report abuse. [Pedophile Gardner]
                                                                                                                                                  But what Dr. Barrett and all "Reunification Therapy" psychologists actually do is themselves program the children: to recant or forget the abuse, submit to the abuser, and to believe their mom is a crazy liar.
                                                                                                                                                  So the true need for deprogramming is AFTER Reunification Therapy. 

                                                                                                                                                  See:  Barrett Brainwashing Damon, In Damon's Own Words

                                                                                                                                                  The Deprogramming did not work on Damon
                                                                                                                                                  When Damon could not be persuaded by Dr. Barrett into recanting the abuse and wanting to live with Eric, Alksne said she would cure his "psychological impairment" by sending him to a boarding school/camp outside of California, where they use torturous POW tactics to break the child's will. Eric has also attempted to send him to a camp.  
                                                                                                                                                  Damon to Camp?
                                                                                                                                                  "Experts Warn about Deprogramming Camps"
                                                                                                                                                  "Kids in Camps"  
                                                                                                                                                  What happened in Damon's case is what happens any time a child reports abuse by a middle or upper class father.  
                                                                                                                                                  (CPS has no problem taking kids away from poor fathers and often takes them away without evidence of abuse due to financial incentives.) 
                                                                                                                                                  There is a pattern which these cases follow.  
                                                                                                                                                  See: Family Court Pattern


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                                                                                                                                                  THE COVER UP
                                                                                                                                                  THERE IS A MASSIVE COVER UP OF SEXUAL ABUSE IN FAMILY COURTS
                                                                                                                                                  WHERE CHILDREN AND THEIR MOTHERS ARE METHODICALLY THREATENED INTO SILENCE USING THE CHILDREN AS HOSTAGES TO EXTORT COMPLIANCE
                                                                                                                                                  Threats to Silence

                                                                                                                                                  THIS COVER UP MAKES THE PENN STATE, CHURCH AND SCOUTS SCANDALS 
                                                                                                                                                  PALE IN COMPARISON.
                                                                                                                                                  MILLIONS OF CHILDREN HAVE BEEN VICTIMIZED OVER DECADES
                                                                                                                                                  .

                                                                                                                                                  "It is not a matter of ignorance or incredulity.  
                                                                                                                                                  They know, and they systematically cover it up.  
                                                                                                                                                  And those who are covering it up know exactly who they are."

                                                                                                                                                  Dr. Amy Neustein
                                                                                                                                                  From Madness to Mutiny:  Why Mothers Are Running from Family Courts
                                                                                                                                                  The cover up is accomplished by a pattern that is used in virtually all sexual abuse cases:
                                                                                                                                                  1.  Child reports abuse by father; mother attempts to protect child in family court.
                                                                                                                                                  2.  A proper investigation isn't done; evidence is dismissed; mother is called crazy or a liar.
                                                                                                                                                  3.  Officials deliberately silence the mother and child by giving, or threatening to give, full custody to the father while severely restricting or eliminating visitation if either one continues to report abuse or attempts to get protection.

                                                                                                                                                  Note:  Although the mothers and children are called liars, they are not disbelieved. That is merely a tactic used to achieve the cover up. The officials know the abuse is occurring.


                                                                                                                                                  [For a more detailed account of the Pattern used to cover up the abuse, see:  Pattern]

                                                                                                                                                  The Cover Up-->UnCovered

                                                                                                                                                  I.    The first step in Ending the COVER UP is to Expose and Educate
                                                                                                                                                  II.  The second step is holding accountable those involved in the COVER UP
                                                                                                                                                  III. The third step is to create a system where abuse cannot be covered up


                                                                                                                                                  I.  Expose and Educate
                                                                                                                                                          A.  HOW DO COURT PROFESSIONALS ACCOMPLISH THE COVER UP?
                                                                                                                                                                1.  POOR INVESTIGATION 
                                                                                                                                                                       
                                                                                                                                                                       A substandard investigation is conducted so that crucial evidence cannot
                                                                                                                                                                       be gathered.
                                                                                                                                                                       Insider minors' counsels and psychologists are appointed who spin the data 
                                                                                                                                                                       against the child and mom.
                                                                                                                                                                       What evidence does get in is deliberately discounted and suppressed which 
                                                                                                                                                                       enables the finding of "insufficient evidence".  Although the burden is 
                                                                                                                                                                       supposed to be low (preponderance), no matter how much evidence 
                                                                                                                                                                       there is, there is NEVER ENOUGH to hold a father accountable and 'ruin his 
                                                                                                                                                                       reputation'.  Even when there is medical evidence, it is disregarded.
                                                                                                                                                                        "Insufficient evidence" is deliberately and fraudulently transmuted to:  
                                                                                                                                                                        "no abuse" and mom and kids must "act like it didn't happen". 
                                                                                                                                                                       Even when the abuse is founded and/or the abuser admits to it, it is minimized
                                                                                                                                                                       and reunification with the abuser is ordered, so the system is designed to give
                                                                                                                                                                       the children to the abuser no matter what.                  
                                                                                                                                                                 2.  SHIFT BLAME TO MOM
                                                                                                                                                                               The blame is shifted to Mom via the Parental Alienation tactic. Mom is 
                                                                                                                                                                      portrayed as "mad or bad", i.e. either she is crazy or vindictive and as not being
                                                                                                                                                                      a "friendly parent".  
                                                                                                                                                                      This takes the focus of the father and puts Mom on the defensive.  No credible 
                                                                                                                                                                      evidence is required to make the finding mom is alienating, just the insiders' 
                                                                                                                                                                      bought and biased opinions. Damon's List 
                                                                                                                                                                      Mom is simply the convenient scapegoat who is destroyed in the cover up.
                                                                                                                                                               3.  LACK OF DUE PROCESS 
                                                                                                                                                                     A pathetic adjudicative process ensues which is unfair and enables the unsupported
                                                                                                                                                                     findings that the abuse did not likely happen and mom is guilty of alienation.  
                                                                                                                                                                     Laws and Constitutional rights are violated with impunity--a kangaroo court.
                                                                                                                                                               4.  THREATS TO SILENCE CHILDREN AND MOMS 
                                                                                                                                                                            Children and mothers who report abuse are told if they do not agree to say the 
                                                                                                                                                                    abuse did not happen or at least stay quiet about it and agree to unsupervised
                                                                                                                                                                    visitation or joint custody with the abuser, they will not see each other again.
                                                                                                                                                                    The children are isolated from their mother through supervised visitation 
                                                                                                                                                                    so they cannot get help. [Threats to Silence]                                       
                                                                                                                                                                    They are sent to complicit insider psychologists who make sure they do not talk 
                                                                                                                                                                    about the abuse.  Often the children are brainwashed.   [Brainwashing Damon]
                                                                                                                                                                5.  COVER UP IS COMPLETE
                                                                                                                                                                       Neither the children nor the mother dare speak of the abuse again for fear of not
                                                                                                                                                                    ever seeing each other again.  The abuse usually continues and often escalates.  
                                                                                                                                                                    The children suffer and are greatly damaged, but the abuser is permitted to do
                                                                                                                                                                    whatever he wants with HIS children, which is all that matters in family court.  

                                                                                                                                                                     What happened to Freud over 100 years ago helps illustrate how the ole boys 
                                                                                                                                                                     have used intimidation and threats to cover up sexual abuse for ages, not 
                                                                                                                                                                     just on mothers and children, but on colleagues like Freud.  See below.
                                                                                                                                                         B.  WHY DO JUDGES, ATTORNEYS, PSYCHOLOGISTS, et. al., COVER UP ABUSE?
                                                                                                                                                               1.  ABUSERS HAVE THE POWER THROUGH CONNECTIONS
                                                                                                                                                                    
                                                                                                                                                                  The Status Quo/Old Boys support Father Entitlelment over Child Protection, i.e., fathers' right to rape their children if they so choose.  When you go along with the Old Boys, you get rewarded and climb the ladder faster.  There are many people in power who sell children out to increase their own power, position and wealth. (How can they sleep at night knowing children are being raped while they profit from it? There is a special place in hell reserved for them...Damon's List)
                                                                                                                                                                    Accused fathers immediately hire a father's rights attorney who is connected with all the players who cover up abuse. 
                                                                                                                                                                 There may be bribes, campaign contributions or just back stroking.  But the cases are rigged from the start because the abuser's get connected with the "right" people.  Even the mom's attorney actively or passively enables the cover up because they know they won't win cases in this town if they don't.                   
                                                                                                                                                             2.  ABUSERS HAVE THE POWER THROUGH MONEY 
                                                                                                                                                                The "Abusers' Lobby" ( a well organized but covert group which is largely made up of pedophiles) is heavily influencing the court system with their political influence, money and power. They use Fathers' Rights groups to divert hundreds of millions of dollars Federal Fatherhood Initiative Funds and as a platform to exercise their control over the courts, pushing bogus syndromes like "parental alienation" and mandatory joint custody to help them gain custody and control of their victims. The courts also fleece the accounts of both parents which can add up to hundreds of thousands of dollars.
                                                                                                                                                  Bottom Line:  Court officials entrusted to protect children are instead selling them out to abusers.  It's a type of Kids for Cash scheme, likened to child trafficking---the exploitation of children for profit and power.
                                                                                                                                                               3.  ABUSERS HAVE THE POWER THROUGH HISTORICALLY LICENSED MALE 

                                                                                                                                                                       ENTITLEMENT
                                                                                                                                                                      Fathers have always had the right to rape their children if they wanted, ever since patriarchy began---which is still being upheld by the court system, because it is still run by old boys.                    
                                                                                                                                                                   "[In courtrooms] the rule of the father is replicated with frightening precision."   
                                                                                                                                                                   Dr. Caroline Taylor, Court Licensed Abuse
                                                                                                                                                                    Until the 70's, children were blamed for the abuse using Freud's bogus theories that they fantasized, lied or desired the sex.  When that was debunked, the abusers and their enablers shifted the blame to mothers using a new bogus theory--parental alienation. Never yet have middle or upper class fathers been held accountable for molesting their children.
                                                                                                                                                  We need to replace the status quo with a system that prioritizes child safety over male entitlement.                      
                                                                                                                                                  II.  Hold Accountable All Those Who Participate in the COVER UP
                                                                                                                                                            A.  NAME and SHAME 
                                                                                                                                                                  1.  Identify all people who participate in the COVER UP.   [See Damon's List]  

                                                                                                                                                                2.  Use the media and protests to let the public know Family Court officials are
                                                                                                                                                                     enabling predatory fathers. 
                                                                                                                                                             B.  MAKE COMPLAINTS TO THE PROFESSIONAL BOARDS OF THOSE WHO

                                                                                                                                                                   PARTICIPATE IN THE COVER UP.
                                                                                                                                                             C.  CAMPAIGN AGAINST ELECTED OFFICIALS WHO PARTICIPATE IN THE COVER 
                                                                                                                                                                   UP.  LET OTHER ELECTED OFFICIALS KNOW WHO IS PARTICIPATING IN THE 
                                                                                                                                                                   COVER UP.
                                                                                                                                                             D.  LET FRIENDS, FAMILY, EMPLOYEES, COLLEAGUES, ET. AL. KNOW ABOUT
                                                                                                                                                                  THEIR COMPLICITY IN FEEDING CHILDREN TO THEIR MOLESTERS SO AS TO
                                                                                                                                                                   SHAME THEM.
                                                                                                                                                                   
                                                                                                                                                  III.  Create a system that protects children, not abusers.
                                                                                                                                                           A.  PROPER INVESTIGATIONS USING VALID PROTOCOLS
                                                                                                                                                           B.  PROPER ADJUDICATION AND DUE PROCESS
                                                                                                                                                  • Open the courtrooms to the public and make judges accountable for their rulings.
                                                                                                                                                  • Create designated, specialized DV/Child Abuse Courts where all officials are trained in valid procedures and protocols and are mandated to follow them.
                                                                                                                                                  • Get rid of the "best interests of the child" as the standard for custody and replace it with a new concept called the "approximation standard." That means that the judge should try to approximate the same setup for the children that existed before the divorce. If mom was with the kids 70 percent of the time before the divorce, she would be with them 70 percent of the time after the divorce. In non-contested custody cases, the mother and father generally agree to this on their own.
                                                                                                                                                  • Most significantly, the allegation of child abuse in a custody battle must be considered a rebuttable presumption, that is, that the sworn testimony of a parent or child claiming abuse is presumed to be true unless and until the accused sufficiently challenges its veracity.
                                                                                                                                                           C.  ENABLE PROTECTIVE PARENTS TO REMOVE COURT OFFICIALS WHO 
                                                                                                                                                                DON'T PRIORITIZE CHILD SAFETY 
                                                                                                                                                           D.  HOLD ABUSERS ACCOUNTABLE 
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                                                                                                                                                  What happened to Freud over 100 years ago helps illustrate 
                                                                                                                                                  the History and Magnitude of the COVER UP.
                                                                                                                                                  When Freud's research led him to the finding that hysteria, an affliction of women, was due to the trauma  of having been sexually abused as children, usually by their fathers, he was ostracized, intimidated and threatened by his colleagues and supervisors 

                                                                                                                                                  with loss of status and income unless he recanted.  
                                                                                                                                                  After a couple of years, he caved to the pressure of the status quo and made a 180: 
                                                                                                                                                  He shifted the blame from fathers to children, saying they fantasized, lied, or desired the sex. 
                                                                                                                                                  He created junk theories to facilitate the cover up--infantile sexuality, penis envy, 

                                                                                                                                                  the Oedipal complex and other unscientific garbage. 
                                                                                                                                                  This pleased his colleagues immensely, so Freud was rewarded with great power and fame.  

                                                                                                                                                  Freud's colleague, Pierre Janet, never caved to the status quo, and he and his works were, although scientifically valid, ignored and forgotten in the cover up.  
                                                                                                                                                  One student of Freud's, Sandor Ferenczi, did not cave to the status quo either, 
                                                                                                                                                  and he paid with his life for his courage.
                                                                                                                                                  The Assault on Truth 

                                                                                                                                                  Speaking Truth to Power has never been easy...
                                                                                                                                                  but it can and is being done by Courageous Kids and Protective Moms everywhere.

                                                                                                                                                  The reason everyone knows Freud's name today is precisely because he contributed so much 
                                                                                                                                                  to the COVER UP of paternal sexual assault.  
                                                                                                                                                  Freud's fame was his reward by the old boys for helping them keep their entitlement and their dirty little secret.

                                                                                                                                                  And so, fathers continued to get away with sexually assaulting their children 
                                                                                                                                                  unhampered by the truth for another hundred years---
                                                                                                                                                  until brave new researchers, like Drs. Judith Herman and Lisa Hirschman, 
                                                                                                                                                  discovered the truth and refused to participate in the COVER UP 
                                                                                                                                                  despite being subjected to the same old intimidation by a new set of ole boys.  
                                                                                                                                                  Trauma and Recovery

                                                                                                                                                  The '70's was the Beginning of the End of Predatory Paternal Entitlement.
                                                                                                                                                  As Dr. Jean Baker Miller said:
                                                                                                                                                  "THIS CHANGES EVERYTHING"
                                                                                                                                                  Women now have a voice, education, the internet, more financial independence 
                                                                                                                                                  and valid scientific research to back them.
                                                                                                                                                  There is no other time in history when those crucial things have converged.

                                                                                                                                                  But the ole boys aren't giving up their entitlement 
                                                                                                                                                  to sexually assault their children without a major fight:
                                                                                                                                                  Now that it is known that children do not imagine or desire sexual relations with Papa, 
                                                                                                                                                  they cannot so easily blame the children.  
                                                                                                                                                  So their organized BACKLASH involves shifting the blame to the mother 
                                                                                                                                                  with yet a new bogus theory by a new complicit psychologist: 
                                                                                                                                                  Parental Alienation Theory 
                                                                                                                                                  created by pedophile Dr. Richard Gardner 

                                                                                                                                                  The valid research which shows sexual abuse by fathers is common and extremely damaging is being dismissed and valid investigative protocols are not being followed 
                                                                                                                                                  by Family Court officials, who continue to enable predatory fathers.
                                                                                                                                                  Same ol' dirty tactics to cover up the same ol' dirty secret.

                                                                                                                                                  But we're not giving up, shutting up or going away this time!
                                                                                                                                                  We will unite, hold our ground and 
                                                                                                                                                  WE WILL WIN
                                                                                                                                                  For the first time in written history 
                                                                                                                                                  We Will Be Able to Protect Children from Predatory Fathers.

                                                                                                                                                  PROTECTIVE PARENTS, SURVIVORS AND ALLIES UNITE!

                                                                                                                                                  It is now known that Freud was right the first time: 
                                                                                                                                                  sexual abuse by fathers is very common and can lead to serious  mental disorders.
                                                                                                                                                  Incredibly, more than 100 years later, with solid research to support the truth,
                                                                                                                                                  psychiatric and legal professionals are still using junk science to shift the blame from the fathers to the children 
                                                                                                                                                  and to anyone who dares support them, mostly mothers.

                                                                                                                                                  The new junk science used to facilitate the COVER UP is Parental Alienation, created by pedophile Dr. Richard Gardner.
                                                                                                                                                  A version of that theory is what is being used in Damon's case and almost all other 
                                                                                                                                                  sexual abuse cases in family courts.
                                                                                                                                                  But Dr. Gardner has not gained status like Freud for his creation of junk science 
                                                                                                                                                  (although he did get rich off of it).  
                                                                                                                                                  In fact, he violently killed himself after many children sued him for taking their moms away and ruining their lives.  
                                                                                                                                                  Judges, psychologists and lawyers know PA is not valid, but they use it anyway 
                                                                                                                                                  as a tactic to deliberately COVER UP the abuse.

                                                                                                                                                  HENCE, THE MODERN-DAY VERSION OF THE AGE-OLD COVER UP IS PLAYING OUT IN YOUR FAMILY COURT TODAY!
                                                                                                                                                  Statement of Whistleblower Judge DeAnn Salcido

                                                                                                                                                  It appears Damon and his mom are victims of this age-old patriarchal dictum 

                                                                                                                                                  to which Freud was subjected:
                                                                                                                                                  "Shut up and let fathers sexually assault their kids--

                                                                                                                                                  or else you will pay dearly."

                                                                                                                                                  JUDGE ALKSNE IS GOING ALONG WITH THE OLE BOYS' COVER UP 
                                                                                                                                                  AND IS MAKING DAMON'S MOM PAY DEARLY 
                                                                                                                                                  FOR HAVING THE AUDACITY TO TRY TO PROTECT DAMON FROM HIS FATHER. 

                                                                                                                                                  Patriarchy intentionally divides women by rewarding those who maintain the status quo with more power, as they systematically disenfranchise other women by enforcing patriarchal norms.
                                                                                                                                                  Alksne and Dumanis are betraying women and children to gain power.

                                                                                                                                                  ALKSNE AND DUMANIS WILL UNDOUBTEDLY BE REWARDED BY THE OLE BOYS 
                                                                                                                                                  FOR THEIR COMPLICITY IN THE COVER UP 
                                                                                                                                                  BUT THEY WILL BE NOTORIOUS AND VILIFIED, NOT FAMOUS

                                                                                                                                                  BECAUSE NOW THE COVER UP IS BEING EXPOSED AND JUST LIKE WITH PENN STATE 

                                                                                                                                                  THE PUBLIC WILL BE OUTRAGED.
                                                                                                                                                  Domestic Violence, Abuse and Child Custody

                                                                                                                                                  APPELLATE COURT JUSTICES ARE NOW PART OF THE COVER UP:
                                                                                                                                                  Justice Alex McDonald, Justice Terry B. O'Rourke and Justice Richard Huffman
                                                                                                                                                  all colluded in the cover up and denied Damon the protection and justice he deserves.
                                                                                                                                                  Shame on you higher court justices!  
                                                                                                                                                  You are supposed to provide oversight for biased and corrupt lower courts.

                                                                                                                                                  Probably not a coincidence that Damon's case went to the oldest of ole boys.

                                                                                                                                                  Time's UP.  Time for a change of guard.
                                                                                                                                                  OUT WITH THE OLD BOYS AND IN WITH NEW GUYS AND GALS-- 
                                                                                                                                                  professionals who are unbiased, use valid protocols, 

                                                                                                                                                  and prioritize children's safety over father entitlement.
                                                                                                                                                  Incest, A Feminist Issue

                                                                                                                                                  This is an epidemic which is harming our children 
                                                                                                                                                  and our society more than any other issue.  

                                                                                                                                                  Child Abuse often leads to mental health problems, drug abuse, 
                                                                                                                                                  sexual assault and other criminal behavior. 
                                                                                                                                                  Each and every citizen has a responsibility to help break this cycle of violence.
                                                                                                                                                  It's time to end the most devastating scandal in our society today.
                                                                                                                                                  Agonizing Last Words of Bill Zeller

                                                                                                                                                  "The scandal in family courts that leads to the tragic outcomes reported by Peter Jamison is a larger and more insidious problem than the Catholic priest scandal. 
                                                                                                                                                  The research of the Leadership Council, our nonprofit clearinghouse for research on child abuse, suggests that 58,000 children a year in the United States 
                                                                                                                                                  are placed in the unsupervised care of abusive parents."
                                                                                                                                                  Dr. Joyanna Silberg, Executive Vice President 
                                                                                                                                                  Leadership Council on Child Abuse & Interpersonal Violence
                                                                                                                                                  Peter Jamison, SF Weekly article:
                                                                                                                                                  California Family Courts Helping Pedophiles and Batterers Get Child Custody

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                                                                                                                                                  Hold Accountable All Those Who Participate in the COVER UP

                                                                                                                                                  NAME and SHAME 
                                                                                                                                                  ALL THE ABUSERS AND THEIR ENABLERS FOR THIS DEVASTATION TO OUR CHILDREN 
                                                                                                                                                  SO WE CAN BEGIN TO REDUCE THE INCIDENCE OF THIS HEINOUS CRIME AGAINST HUMANITY.
                                                                                                                                                  THE SIGN OF A CIVILIZED SOCIETY IS HOW IT TREATS ITS CHILDREN.
                                                                                                                                                  WE ARE NOT YET CIVILIZED....
                                                                                                                                                  DamonsList.org
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                                                                                                                                                  "The crisis in the custody court system is responsible for thousands of children being 
                                                                                                                                                  forced to live with abusers and denied meaningful relationships with safe, protective parents."
                                                                                                                                                  Barry Goldstein, Esq. 
                                                                                                                                                  Crisis in the Custody Court System

                                                                                                                                                  "It's not about truth or justice---It's about who you know and how much money you have."
                                                                                                                                                  Family Court Crisis:  Abusers Getting Custody 

                                                                                                                                                  “After twenty years [now thirty] in family law courtrooms throughout the country, I confidently say that no woman, despite very abundant evidence that her child has been sexually molested by her ex-husband can safely walk into any family court in the country and not face a grave risk of losing custody to the abuser for the sole reason that she dared to present the evidence to the judge and ask that the child be protected.”
                                                                                                                                                  Richard Ducote, Esq.

                                                                                                                                                  Ducote Law

                                                                                                                                                  "The court culture that exists harms women and children, especially those who raise abuse in court...
                                                                                                                                                  I relied on other judges who taught me that I should be suspicious of any woman 
                                                                                                                                                  who makes an abuse allegation during a divorce proceeding...
                                                                                                                                                  Too many judges are recklessly disregarding abuse allegations."
                                                                                                                                                  Judge Deann Salcido
                                                                                                                                                     San Diego Whistleblower Judge

                                                                                                                                                  "The system rewards perpetrators for growing their own victims."
                                                                                                                                                  Andrew Vachss, J.D., Founder 
                                                                                                                                                  National Association to Protect Children 
                                                                                                                                                  Eliminating the Incest Loophole

                                                                                                                                                  "Legal jurisprudence sanctions the legal abuse of children 
                                                                                                                                                  by silencing them in the courtroom, 
                                                                                                                                                  actively concealing evidence, and regulating the evidence 

                                                                                                                                                  they and others are allowed to present.  
                                                                                                                                                  As a result, judges preside over cases in which children and young adults 

                                                                                                                                                  are treated reprehensively."
                                                                                                                                                  Dr. Caroline Taylor
                                                                                                                                                  Court Licensed Abuse
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                                                                                                                                                  Judge Deann Salcido, a San Diego whistleblower judge, 
                                                                                                                                                  exposed that new judges are told by their superiors (the old boys) they must  

                                                                                                                                                  "go along to get along"
                                                                                                                                                  and dismiss reports of abuse by women and children as not credible 

                                                                                                                                                  (i.e. say they are liars).  
                                                                                                                                                  Judge Salcido Video
                                                                                                                                                  (Check back for the publication of her new book on this subject.)

                                                                                                                                                  "The static view of women and children as fabricators of sexual offenses remains an ageless dictum." 
                                                                                                                                                  Dr. Caroline Taylor
                                                                                                                                                  Court Licensed Abuse

                                                                                                                                                  IT'S TIME TO EXIT THE DARK AGES
                                                                                                                                                  This is the 3rd Millenium!
                                                                                                                                                  Statistics show that one out of five children are molested.
                                                                                                                                                  Let's stop accusing women and children of lying and instead hold molesters and abusers accountable.
                                                                                                                                                  RECALL ALL THE OLD BOYS AND THEIR MINIONS 
                                                                                                                                                  WHO ENDANGER CHILDREN WITH THEIR BIAS.
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                                                                                                                                                  Unconstitutional gag orders are routinely issued preventing protective parents from going to the public and the media, 
                                                                                                                                                  and records are sealed, not to protect privacy, but to prevent scrutiny of the court which would expose the cover up to the public. 

                                                                                                                                                  But the best way ensure silence and cover up abuse is by taking, 
                                                                                                                                                  or threatening to take, custody away from the protective parent, 
                                                                                                                                                  which is exactly why Damon and his brothers were taken away from their mother and threatened that if they didn't stay silent about the abuse, 
                                                                                                                                                  they wouldn't see each other again.
                                                                                                                                                  Custody of children is used as leverage to enable the cover up of abuse.

                                                                                                                                                  See Threats to Silence

                                                                                                                                                  However, there are many organizations supporting Damon 
                                                                                                                                                  who will not be silent until Damon gets justice and protection, 
                                                                                                                                                  and is allowed to live with his loving, protective mother.
                                                                                                                                                  NOW, Stop Family Violence, Justice for Children, 
                                                                                                                                                  California Protective Parents Assn., Protective Mothers Alliance International, Defenders of Children, Center for Judicial Excellence, Mothers Against Child Abuse, American Mothers Political Party,
                                                                                                                                                   Institute on Violence, Abuse and Trauma,  The Leadership Council on Child Abuse and Interpersonal Violence, etc.

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                                                                                                                                                  The White House has been presented with hundreds of cases in which sexual abuse has been covered up and the children forced to live with their identified molesters, including Damon's.
                                                                                                                                                  Damon's mother met with top White House officials to try to get help for Damon and other children. 

                                                                                                                                                  BEWARE ABUSER ENABLERS:  There is a federal investigation pending....
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                                                                                                                                                  WHY EVEN YOUR CHILDREN ARE BEING PUT AT RISK DUE TO THE COVER UP:
                                                                                                                                                  Statistics show that most family predators prey outside the home as well. 
                                                                                                                                                  The average number of victims for each predator is over 100 
                                                                                                                                                  SO ALL CHILDREN ARE AT GREAT RISK WHEN FAMILY COURTS COVER UP SEXUAL ABUSE.

                                                                                                                                                  A good example of of the dangers to children outside the family when sexual abuse is covered up is the San Diego case of 
                                                                                                                                                  HENRY "BUD" PARSONS.
                                                                                                                                                  The evidence of abuse was ignored, Bud was given full custody, and he went on to molest many other children.
                                                                                                                                                  ABC News video

                                                                                                                                                  Because of Damon's many reports of sexual assaults by Eric, 
                                                                                                                                                  you may want to get as many facts as possible in order to make an informed decision about allowing your children
                                                                                                                                                   to be around Eric or play around his house at:  14489 Crestwood Dr., Poway CA 92064,
                                                                                                                                                  or to play around any of his friends' or relatives' houses.
                                                                                                                                                  (See the case of Bud Parsons who was convicted for molesting his daughter's friends after getting custody.)

                                                                                                                                                  There is no way to tell who is a child molester--
                                                                                                                                                  no psychological test, no aspect of their appearance or behavior, nothing. 
                                                                                                                                                  Most people think they would be able to tell who could be a child molester, but most offenders appear to be good, upstanding citizens.  
                                                                                                                                                  Child molesters count on people falling for their "nice guy" facade.  
                                                                                                                                                  Don't be duped.  Believe the children.
                                                                                                                                                  (Remember Dateline Predators)

                                                                                                                                                  "It is a misconception that child molesters are somehow different from the rest of us...
                                                                                                                                                  What is different about child molesters is only this:  They have sex with children."

                                                                                                                                                  Dr. Anna Salter

                                                                                                                                                  Predators 

                                                                                                                                                  "Cultivating the 'good father' and 'good citizen' image tends to prevent detection 
                                                                                                                                                  of the perpetrator's conduct while at the same time increasing the difficulty the victim faces
                                                                                                                                                   in being able to disclose the offender's conduct, and then having his/her story believed."
                                                                                                                                                  Dr. Caroline Taylor
                                                                                                                                                  Court Licensed Abuse


                                                                                                                                                  "Who do I see the most [perpetrators of child sexual assault]?
                                                                                                                                                    I see white, middle class, better than average income, better than average educated, 
                                                                                                                                                  often a pillar of the community."
                                                                                                                                                  Judge Sol Gothard 
                                                                                                                                                  Family Court Corruption & PAS

                                                                                                                                                  "If the custody courts reformed their practices to stop making children live with abusers, 
                                                                                                                                                  it would do more to reduce crime than every crime bill passed in our lifetime."
                                                                                                                                                  Barry Goldstein, Esq.
                                                                                                                                                  Custody/Visitation Scandal Cases


                                                                                                                                                  "Research has consistently identified the biological father as the offender in the majority of cases.  
                                                                                                                                                  After the father, stepfathers rank second."

                                                                                                                                                  Dr. Caroline Taylor
                                                                                                                                                  Court Licensed Abuse  

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                                                                                                                                                  Why would anyone help a child molester have access to his/her victim?
                                                                                                                                                  Family Court is a billion dollar industry and bribery of many varieties takes place, 
                                                                                                                                                  with lots of ambulance chasing lawyers and psychologists.  
                                                                                                                                                  Gender bias, cronyism, peer pressure, and the "black wall of silence" 
                                                                                                                                                  contribute. 
                                                                                                                                                  Politics and climbing the ladder (for going along with the status quo of blaming, discrediting, punishing, 

                                                                                                                                                  and silencing women and children) also play a role.
                                                                                                                                                  The ancient tradition of the father in control of his woman and children still underpins judicial attitudes.
                                                                                                                                                  And the false premise that women and children often lie about abuse.
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                                                                                                                                                  THE APPELLATE COURT DENIED THE APPEAL FOR DAMON TO BE ABLE TO LIVE WITH HIS MOM.
                                                                                                                                                  A SCATHING OPINION WAS RENDERED ACCUSING DAMON'S MOM OF ALIENATION
                                                                                                                                                  DESPITE THE FACT THAT THERE IS NO EVIDENCE WHATSOEVER THAT 
                                                                                                                                                  DAMON'S REPORTS OF ABUSE ARE A RESULT OF COACHING OR INFLUENCING BY HER.
                                                                                                                                                  Petition for Rehearing

                                                                                                                                                  NEW CHILD MOLESTER ENABLERS NOW INCLUDE:
                                                                                                                                                  JUSTICE ALEX C. McDONALD
                                                                                                                                                  JUSTICE TERRY B. O'ROURKE
                                                                                                                                                  JUSTICE RICHARD D. HUFFMAN

                                                                                                                                                  PREVIOUS DECISIONS WHICH HARMED DAMON MADE BY:
                                                                                                                                                  JUSTICE GILBERT NARES
                                                                                                                                                  JUSTICE JUDITH McCONNELL
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                                                                                                                                                  Books about how and why courts cover up sexual abuse:
                                                                                                                                                  Domestic Violence, Abuse and Child Custody
                                                                                                                                                  From Madness to Mutiny: Why Women are Running from Family Courts
                                                                                                                                                  Rocking the Cradle of Sexual Politics
                                                                                                                                                  Court Licensed Abuse

                                                                                                                                                  ______________________________________________________

                                                                                                                                                  "From the moment she [Judge Deann Salcido] arrived in family court as a new judge, 
                                                                                                                                                  she says she was advised by veterans of the system 
                                                                                                                                                  to disbelieve accusations of child or spousal abuse arising in divorces."
                                                                                                                                                   Peter Jamison, SF Weekly
                                                                                                                                                  Illegal Guardians:  When judges award child custody to abusive parents, the family court system in California is broken

                                                                                                                                                  _______________________________


                                                                                                                                                  Despite the fact that research shows between 20-25% of children are sexually abused, most of it by fathers and stepfathers, and that 
                                                                                                                                                  it is rare for children to report abuse falsely or for mothers to fabricate allegations of abuse, Family Court still routinely discredits and blames the mother and/or child, while concealing and transmuting credible evidence of abuse.  

                                                                                                                                                  One San Diego Family Court judge told a protective mom that in his 30 years on the bench he had never seen a child protected from sexual abuse, so it was not worth her presenting any more evidence (She was attempting to lodge computer evidence of her ex's child porn addiction.)  To this day, we have not heard of a child being protected either.
                                                                                                                                                  Even if the abuse is substantiated, "reunification" with the abuser begins immediately.

                                                                                                                                                  But, of course, there is no reunification with the protective parents who get custody taken away as a result of trying to protect their children. They treat that as a more serious crime than child sexual assault. 
                                                                                                                                                  Reunification is only for abusers, not loving mothers.  The old boys are obviously running this show.

                                                                                                                                                  It's time to come out of the Dark Ages and replace the old boys and their minions 
                                                                                                                                                  with judges who care more about protecting children than the status quo.
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                                                                                                                                                  UNTIL WE, THE PEOPLE, SPEAK OUT AND DEMAND AN END 
                                                                                                                                                  TO THIS COVER UP, ALL OF OUR CHILDREN AND GRANDCHILDREN 
                                                                                                                                                  ARE AT RISK FROM THESE PREDATORS.

                                                                                                                                                  Join us for a rally at the White House on Mother's Day 
                                                                                                                                                  and at the Capitol in Sacramento, CA the day after Mother's Day 
                                                                                                                                                  to expose this crisis and rally for change.  We are demanding that our children be protected!
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                                                                                                                                                  Despite the fact that Eric failed the polygraph and the detective placed him on the  Child Abuse Central Index
                                                                                                                                                   a search warrant was not obtained to get DNA from Damon's sheets  (despite Damon saying the abuse in his top bunk bed got him wet) or for Eric's computer (though he was reported to view child porn and have a sex addiction).
                                                                                                                                                   The detective said she had more important cases to investigate--meaning outside the family (she mentioned a bus driver)--to bother with getting that or any other evidence which would support filing charges.  
                                                                                                                                                  This demonstrates the ingrained bias in the criminal justice system against prosecuting family (father) perpetrators.
                                                                                                                                                  Andrew Vachss, veteran child advocate says you just have to 
                                                                                                                                                  "grow your own victim" to get away with child sexual assault.

                                                                                                                                                  So, Damon's case was shunted into Family Court where the same bias against believing women and children and holding fathers accountable for sexual abuse exists.The minimum requirements by law (FC 3118) were not followed in gathering evidence about the abuse, and the evidence which already existed was dismissed and concealed. When Damon told a Chadwick Center therapist about the abuse, Damon's minor's counsel, Terry Chucas, would not allow Damon to go back to her and instead made him and his brothers go to  "insider" psychologists (Dr. Raymond Murphy and Dr. Jacqueline Gang) who helped cover up the abuse. 

                                                                                                                                                  Damon's mother was threatened by Terry Chucas 
                                                                                                                                                  that if she did not stay quiet about the abuse and allow Damon to go unsupervised with his named molester, she would lose custody and visitation until the boys could be "deprogrammed" (coerced into recanting the abuse). She was pressured to sign a document under oath saying she did not really believe the abuse occurred, which she would not do, explaining that was perjury. Judge Michael Smyth disbelieved and discredited Damon and his mother and gave Eric half time with the boys so 
                                                                                                                                                  Eric had even more time to sexually assault Damon. 

                                                                                                                                                  After two years of exhausting all legal options, Damon's mom had no choice but to flee to protect Damon.
                                                                                                                                                  After three years in hiding she fell for the false promise by the D.A. and family court Judge Alksne that Damon would be listened to and allowed to testify about the abuse if they came back to San Diego.
                                                                                                                                                  ABC News Story

                                                                                                                                                  See the video of another protective mom who fled: 
                                                                                                                                                  No Way Out But One
                                                                                                                                                  "No Way Out But One" tells the story of one woman and her family that is emblematic of a larger heartbreaking national scandal. In Child and Family Court systems across the country, those who abuse their children are often awarded custody of them by the very courts charged with protecting them."


                                                                                                                                                  Instead, even though Damon was 12 years old and willing to testify, 
                                                                                                                                                  Judge Alksne covered up critical evidence of abuse, including videotapes of Damon describing years of abuse to the Chadwick Center and the in chambers testimony with her.  Judge Alksne McKellar would not even have a hearing on the abuse issue.  She said she does not do sexual abuse cases. She appointed her minions--minors' counsels and psychologists--to "take the case" the way she wanted.  She said her only intention was ever to get the boys back to their father (not to listen to Damon). 

                                                                                                                                                  Judge Alksne did what the first judge and family courts most often do---they took the boys away from their loving, protective mother, threatened them that if they did not stay silent about the abuse they would not see each other again. Then she ordered them to be "deprogrammed" by Dr. Breffni Barrett, an expert at getting children to accept living with child molesters and placing blame on moms.  Alksne subsequently coerced the boys against their will to live full time with the identified molester, who has proceeded to bribe and brainwash them with the help of well-paid (bribed) psychologists.

                                                                                                                                                  Sadly, this is not the exception to the rule, but the rule: 
                                                                                                                                                  California Protective Parents Association
                                                                                                                                                  Protective Mothers Alliance International
                                                                                                                                                  Leadership Council on Child Abuse
                                                                                                                                                  Children Against Court Appointed Child Abuse
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                                                                                                                                                  It is not only money and connections that can get a predator off the hook in Family Court, there is ingrained bias as well:
                                                                                                                                                  "From the moment she [Judge Salcido] arrived in family court as a new judge, she says she was advised by veterans of the system to disbelieve accusations of child or spousal abuse arising in divorces."
                                                                                                                                                   From Peter Jamison's article in SF Weekly:
                                                                                                                                                  Illegal Guardians:  When judges award child custody to abusive parents, the family court system in California is broken.
                                                                                                                                                  Follow up article:
                                                                                                                                                  Family Courts Need Reform, Say Judges, Legislators
                                                                                                                                                  Another follow-up Article on abusers' favorite dirty defense tactic, 

                                                                                                                                                  the one that was used to take Damon away from his mom:
                                                                                                                                                  'Parental Alienation Syndrome' -- Judge Isn't Buying it
                                                                                                                                                  ("Parental Alienation" is abusers' favorite legal tactic
                                                                                                                                                  --how they get away with shifting the blame to the mother
                                                                                                                                                  .)


                                                                                                                                                  "It is very tempting to take the side of the perpetrator. 
                                                                                                                                                  All the perpetrator asks is that the bystander do nothing. 
                                                                                                                                                  He appeals to the universal desire to see, hear and speak no evil.  

                                                                                                                                                  The victim, to the contrary, asks the bystander to share in the burden of the pain. 
                                                                                                                                                  The victim demands action, engagement and remembering."
                                                                                                                                                  Dr. Judith Herman 

                                                                                                                                                  Trauma and Recovery
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                                                                                                                                                  Please join us at the White House or Sacramento
                                                                                                                                                  on the day after Mother's Day.
                                                                                                                                                  We will be protesting Family Courts routinely taking children away from protective parents and giving them to abusers.
                                                                                                                                                  If you can't make the White House, protests are being organized in all counties.
                                                                                                                                                  California will have a major protest and meeting with legislators and elected officials in Sacramento. 

                                                                                                                                                  It's time to hold child molesters and their enablers accountable
                                                                                                                                                  so we can begin to protect our children.

                                                                                                                                                  Let's start by 
                                                                                                                                                  NAMING and 
                                                                                                                                                  SHAMING
                                                                                                                                                  all those who enable child molesters.
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                                                                                                                                                  IT'S TIME TO HOLD OUR ELECTED OFFICIALS RESPONSIBLE 

                                                                                                                                                  FOR THE SAFETY OF OUR CHILDREN.
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                                                                                                                                                  Damon says the abuse began when he was four and went on for many years [see Damon’s declaration].  Eric made Damon sleep with him every night where Damon said the abuse would occur multiple times, but Eric seemed to need an extra thrill too.  So he would take Damon outside at night and assault him in the canyon behind his house (where he was made to lay naked in the dirt and sticks), and in the pool (where he thought Eric was going to drown him, possibly a waterboarding tactic), and many other places, like the beer room, the shower, and the closet. 

                                                                                                                                                  Damon said Eric would duct-tape him to the bed and duct-tape his mouth shut so he could not scream for help.  When Damon would try and hide from Eric to avoid being abused, Eric would punish him by locking him outside all night where he was freezing cold and afraid of coyotes and snakes.  Damon was deliberately terrorized into compliance by Eric. 

                                                                                                                                                  Only a sociopathic child predator could do that to a child, 
                                                                                                                                                  which means that no children are safe around Eric.

                                                                                                                                                  Thousands of people have shown their support for Damon through media and email campaigns and petitions, but Judge Alksne still will not listen to or protect Damon.  She refuses to do the minimum required by law to gather evidence (Family Code 3118) and is covering up the evidence which already exists, such as the videotape of Damon reporting the abuse to the Chadwick Center and Eric being caught with child pornography.  

                                                                                                                                                  Judge Alksne would not permit a trial (a due process violation) on the abuse issue where all the evidence can be meaningfully considered and would not allow Damon and his brothers, Evan and Ryan, to testify about the abuse.  She has sealed the record so the public cannot see that she is covering up the abuse and put a gag order on Cindy so she cannot get the truth out or warn the public about Eric.

                                                                                                                                                  Judge Alksne supervises other judges who are giving children to their named abusers as well.   

                                                                                                                                                  Court policy is to reunify children with their rapists.  That is unacceptable.

                                                                                                                                                  This massive cover up of child abuse in Family Court mirrors the Catholic Church scandal. It's time for society to wake up and realize how destructive these "otherwise nice" outwardly respectable sex offenders are. 
                                                                                                                                                  A sex offender therapist once said that she never met a child molester she didn't like.  

                                                                                                                                                  Citizens must stop being duped by these evil perps.  ALL children are endangered by them. 

                                                                                                                                                  Statistics show that most sex offenders who molest family members also prey on children outside the family [see Murphy/Parson page and video where the father was later caught for molesting many of his daughter's school friends after Family Court gave him custody and gag ordered the mom so she could not warn anybody], and the victims often do as well (as in John Gardner's case).  
                                                                                                                                                         THAT MEANS ALL OF OUR CHILDREN ARE AT RISK.

                                                                                                                                                  EVER WONDER WHY THERE ARE SO MANY SEX OFFENDERS?
                                                                                                                                                  Child molesters average 100 victims.  30% of those victims go on to victimize others.  That means every perpetrator generates 30 more perps.  Do the math. It is exponential.  No wonder there are so many sex offenders!  To save our children and our society we must start taking these cases seriously and holding offenders and their enablers accountable.

                                                                                                                                                  JUDGES AND D.A.'s WHO IGNORE CHILDREN'S REPORTS OF ABUSE
                                                                                                                                                         AND ALLOW SEX OFFENDERS TO HAVE ACCESS TO OUR   
                                                                                                                                                        CHILDREN SHOULD NOT BE ON THE BENCH OR IN OFFICE.
                                                                                                                                                                
                                                                                                                                                            RECALL JUDGE ALKSNE McKELLAR
                                                                                                                                                  Help Save Damon by signing the Petition to Recall Judge Alksne:
                                                                                                                                                                      http://www.PetitionOnline.com/recallja/petition.html

                                                                                                                                                            

                                                                                                                                                  Judge DeAnn M. Salcido Admits Corruption in Family Court
                                                                                                                                                  And Offers Her Statement & Apology

                                                                                                                                                    PROTECTIVE MOMS AND THEIR ALLIES
                                                                                                                                                  GO TO WASHINGTON ON MOTHERS DAY!!

                                                                                                                                                  Protective Moms from all over the country got together for the First Annual Mothers of Lost Children protest. 

                                                                                                                                                  Cindy, Damon's mom, other protective Moms, law professors and heads of many prominent organizations met with top level White House officials who are now aware of Damon's case in particular and how Family Courts in general are taking children away from protective moms and forcing them to live with abusers. 
                                                                                                                                                  A Federal investigation is imminent, along with funding cuts for those involved in endangering children.  

                                                                                                                                                  Academy of Sciences Committee Directors are also coming up with solutions to this travesty of justice.    

                                                                                                                                                  A VERY SUCCESSFUL TRIP!!   

                                                                                                                                                  Empowering Christina Aguilera "Fighter" video
                                                                                                                                                  with shots from our 2010 D.C. protest:
                                                                                                                                                   
                                                                                                                                                  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XxRm7_faGto&feature=player_embedded   

                                                                                                                                                  Children's Voices for Judicial Change
                                                                                                                                                  Calling All Angels video:
                                                                                                                                                  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ESMcMIIjAHI

                                                                                                                                                  HELL IS FOR ABUSERS VIDEO
                                                                                                                                                  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eGeSmGpd66k
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                                                                                                                                                   DR. PHIL IS CALLING IT
                                                                                                                                                  A FAMILY COURT CRISIS 
                                                                                                                                                  and   
                                                                                                                                                  A SILENT EPIDEMIC

                                                                                                                                                  FAMILY COURTS TAKING CHILDREN AWAY FROM PROTECTIVE,
                                                                                                                                                  LOVING MOMS AND GIVING THEM TO ABUSERS
                                                                                                                                                  http://drphil.com/shows/show/1442/
                                                                                                                                                  Dr. Phil has taken on Damon's case!!!
                                                                                                                                                  Stay tuned to see whether Damon is protected!!
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                                                                                                                                                  NOT ONE MORE CHILD!
                                                                                                                                                  "CHANGE FOR CHELSEA"
                                                                                                                                                  NOT ONE MORE CHELSEA OR AMBER OR DAMON!
                                                                                                                                                  STOP SEX OFFENDERS and THEIR ENABLERS NOW!
                                                                                                                                                  Chelsea's father has made a plea to the public that each of us 
                                                                                                                                                  take some time to help protect children from the
                                                                                                                                                  "incurable evil of sexual predators."

                                                                                                                                                  "I am angry at the so-called experts who repeatedly tell us that cowards like him [Gardner], violent predators who target children, can be can be rehabilitated, when all of us with an ounce of common sense know that our children are not safe and that these cowards pose an untenable risk to our kids."
                                                                                                                                                   
                                                                                                                                                  Brett King
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                                                                                                                                                          Channel 10 News story on Damon



                                                                                                                                                  Channel 9 News Story on Damon


                                                                                                                                                  http://www.kusi.com/home/49186267.html?video=YHI&t=a


                                                                                                                                                  Channel 10 Story on MURPHY/PARSON CASE:


                                                                                                                                                  Family Court Crisis:  Our Children at Risk


                                                                                                                                                  Breaking the Silence: Children's Stories:



                                                                                                                                                  BRIEF SUMMARY OF CASE [see Damon's Story for more details]:

                                                                                                                                                  Damon's mom, Cindy, tried to protect Damon in Family Court for two years before giving up and going into hiding.  After three years in hiding, the D.A. reviewed the case and said she believed Damon so she would not prosecute Cindy for abduction.  The D.A. and the new presiding judge, Judge Alksne, assured them if they returned to San Diego, Damon would be listened to and protected.  So Cindy and the boys returned on February 1, 2008.


                                                                                                                                                                                BUT IT WAS A TRICK.

                                                                                                                                                  Judge Alksne later admitted her only intention had been to get Cindy and the boys back to San Diego so she could give the boys back to Eric.  She has dismissed and covered up Damon’s brave, detailed accounts of abuse by Eric and threats to kill him.  Alksne appointed minor's counsels and psychologists (court whores) to facilitate her agenda.  She has employed cruel and unethical tactics to try and get the boys to go back with their father, including taking them away from their mother and reunification therapy/deprogramming, in which Dr. Breffni Barrett attempted to get the boys to recant the abuse [see page "Reunification Therapy"]. But he was unsuccessful, so he told them they would just have to "forget about it." 

                                                                                                                                                  The boys have also been court ordered to see a therapist, Dr. Craig Carlson, who has also tried to get Damon to recant the abuse and has covered it up.  They are Mandated Reporters so they are breaking the law by not reporting it.  Damon's minor's counsel, Gary Plavnick, believes Damon was abused, but says it is court policy to "reunify" him with his abuser.  He has not advocated for Damon's right to be protected or to be with his mom.

                                                                                                                                                  The boys were told they could not see their mom unless they cooperated with “reunification” with their father—psychological coercion.  The boys agreed to cooperate so they could get back with their mother.


                                                                                                                                                                         BUT THAT WAS A TRICK TOO.

                                                                                                                                                  Even though the boys cooperated, they were never allowed to go back with their mom and have been suffering the loss of their life-long primary bond for over two years now.  Cindy was told that she could not have custody unless she said the abuse did not happen and stop trying to protect Damon, which she will not do.

                                                                                                                                                  Since the boys would not agree to live with their father unless they could also live with their mother, the boys were court ordered against their will to live with him.  However, Damon has absolutely refused to be alone with Eric so he is living with guardians while Eric attempts to "groom" him into a false sense of safety and agree to live with him.

                                                                                                                                                  But so far Damon has been too smart to fall for the grooming trick, so Judge Alksne has now threatened to ratchet up the torture and send Damon away to a camp to “de-program” (i.e. convince him he was not abused) him.  They do cruel things at these camps to convince them to say the abuse did not happen.  They are paid big bucks by child molester fathers to do it (see article on one of these camps:  http://www.tampabay.com/news/controversial-disorder-at-center-of-bitter-custody-cases/1096619

                                                                                                                                                  Judge Alksne told Cindy that she would not get custody of Damon unless she stopped trying to protect him from the abuse.  Alksne has used the bogus "parental alienation" theory to justify taking custody away from Cindy. Parental alienation (and all its manifestations--unfriendly parent, danger to the children, coaching, etc.) is a dirty legal defense tactic used by child molesters and corrupt court officials to shift the blame to the protective parent (see the parental alienation page).  But Judge Alksne covered all her bases and said that Damon had a great imagination too so maybe that could account for the abuse.  Just another version of blaming the victim, which is so much more politically beneficial than holding the perpetrator accountable.

                                                                                                                                                  Maybe if Judge Alksne would do what judges are supposed to and have a fair hearing with all relevant and required evidence being allowed in, the truth would come out instead of being covered up.

                                                                                                                                                                              STOP JUDGE ALKSNE NOW
                                                                                                                                                                   FROM HURTING DAMON, HIS BROTHERS
                                                                                                                                                                                 AND OTHER CHILDREN 

                                                                                                                                                                   RECALL JUDGE ALKSNE
                                                                                                                                                               http://www.PetitionOnline.com/recallja/petition.html
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                                                                                                                                                  Disclaimer:  This website is solely for the purpose of protecting Damon and other children from abuse and sexual assault.  All information posted is believed to be true and is for educational and informational purposes only.  It is not intended to be legal advice.